I have a young Chinese student of mine who wants to visit my house, is this allowed in Chinese culture?

Question

I don’t know what section to put this in. I’m an old professor 60 years old, widowed. I have a young Chinese girl who wants to visit me at my house and talk about Mao, Taiwan Tibet, Deng, Hu and other Chinese topics, very interesting.

 

I’m just a bit worried. She worded it in such a way that it sounded like a date and the girl in question has a habit of making in sexually charged remarks to me time to time. I’m a bit worried I could be faced with a lawsuit or have false changes pressed against me.

 

Is it within Chinese culture for young females to visit older men in their houses?

Answer 1

Technically, there's nothing wrong with visitors / or visiting professors for school-related purposes, although picking a good spot / time is a better idea. I think any girl would agree with me that that kind of "social" visit seems a bit inappropriate. I think if there is a real need for a discussion / visit, a more public place such as cafe or school cafeteria perhaps.